I’m not trying to be mean, but I have a friend who is on the unattractive side. She doesn’t get asked out ever. I’m sure this makes her unhappy. When she’s with the girls, she talks about wanting a guy in her life. When other girls are being bought drinks and getting asked to dance, guys don’t approach her. How can I help her?
I get the impression between the two of you, you believe you’re the attractive one? How narcissistic-ly classy of you. Sorry, but this sounds mean to me.
Seriously though, if your intentions are pure, you’ll help your girlfriend see her self-worth. You can do that by helping her expand her social circle, finding joy in her life and discovering that she truly is a beautiful soul worthy of love. I don’t think she needs to change, maybe you do.